Readers — You’ll love the answer Dear Prudence gives to this mom who is freaked out by an elderly man — a friend of her parents — who gives her 5-year-old daughter “gifts” like shells and feathers.
Let’s hear it for Dear Prudence! She is so…prudent! And wise! As she tells the mom:
…from your description of this situation, my gut feeling is that you have overactive mommy bowels. If you see every friendly man as a potential predator, you’re going to convey unnecessary fear and anxiety to your children.
And while we’re on the subject of bowel-churning fear of old men anywhere in the vicinity of children other than their own, here is my take on the story that’s gone viral about the aged doctor kicked out of an Arizona Barnes & Noble’s children’s book section because a woman found his presence disturbing. What a disgusting pervert!
The woman, I mean. Imagining a child isn’t safe near any male, no matter how public the place, no matter how minding-his-own-business the man.
At this point B&N has apologized and the man — a doctor — wants to drop it already. He’s tired of the hoopla. But it’s nice when the media pauses to realize how crazy our fear of men has made us. (Even if its constant carping on kiddie danger is what made us crazy in the first place.) - L
Filed under: Eek! A Male! (and Stranger Danger)