Seems a mom there, Anne Tabat, wanted to thank her kids’ school bus driver. So she baked some cookies and brought them to the bus stop — one for the driver and one for each of the kids on the bus, too. Her idea was to reach out. Connect. She did this every Friday for 15 years…until last week.
That’s when some anonymous person officially alerted the school district to this unofficially sanctioned practice. Â We don’t know why the caller called, and it doesn’t really matter. What matters is that once alerted, the school district felt compelled to shut her down. So, Â my proposal:
To honor the cookie lady and to connect with each other, why not do one of the two things Tabat did? Either bake a treat for your bus driver and the kids. Or hold a cookie open house. That’s what Tabat is doing this weekend, and does annually. She just bakes a ton of cookies and invites the neighborhood to drop by. This year, of course, Â they’ll all have something to talk about:
Some of her neighbors, [Tabat] says, are more upset about the cookie-bus indignity than she is. â€œI kept saying if youâ€™re going to do something about this, go out and thank your bus driver. Get to know people, not just your neighbors. Get to know everyone on the planet youâ€™re rubbing shoulders with. There are so many people doing things to make your life better, and they never get thanked for it.Â People are good.â€Â
The vast majority are. (And then there are the ones who alert the authorities to random acts of kindness.) Â To win one for our team, I pledge to do some cookie baking today, and to use those cookies to connect. – L.