Readers — What a perfect way to start 2014, with a great story of two boys walking to the store and the mom who fought for that right.
Yes, that RIGHT. It is OUR RIGHT to believe in our kids. And it is our kids’ right to grow up FREE from the limits imposed by delusions of danger.This story was sent in by Ben Rossiter, head of Victoria Walks, an Australian non-profit dedicated to getting people back to doing just what these boys did: Walking around their neighborhoods. How radical. – L.
Women call police after spotting young boys walking alone to Port Fairy shop — but mum is not happy
By Jarrod Woolley
PATRICK Blythe doesn’t understand why a group of women stopped their car and told him and his brother William to go home when they were walking to the shop yesterday morning. …“I was holding Will’s hand, we weren’t running and we stopped and looked properly when we had to cross the road,” the six-year-old said yesterday.
“I told them Mum said we could go, but they just said go home. It made me feel sad, I didn’t do anything wrong.”
It was the first time the brothers had been allowed to walk to the shop without their mum Kelly, a walk they had made together hundreds of times.
“I KNOW MY CHILDREN, AND I KNOW THEY ARE MORE THAN CAPABLE OF WALKING 300 METRES ON THEIR OWN.”
…Ms Blythe said she understood why the women stopped their car to check on her boys, aged six and four…. But what she can’t comprehend is why they called in the police.
To the car of women who pulled over and stopped my two sons on their first unchaperoned walk to the shop to purchase milk, I would first like to acknowledge your concerns about the welfare of my children and I appreciate that you may have a different opinion about whether they were old enough to undertake such a task without adult supervision.
I understand that we do not live in an ideal world where we can presume our children are always going to be safe.
I would love to think that I could protect my children from any sort of harm and I shudder with horror like any parent when I hear about child abductions and other abhorrent abuses innocent children suffer, which are reported by all forms of the media on a daily basis.
I do not, however, want my children to grow up being afraid of the world.
I am a teacher and in my job I am responsible for the welfare and education of my students on a daily basis.
I teach many students who have limited independence and their reliance on myself and others to help them navigate their way through their daily world leaves me concerned about how they will cope with the realities of life once they leave school and have to look after themselves…
Here’s the rest! It ends:
I believe in raising my children to be intelligent, independent beings who will have a lot to offer the world as adults. I am teaching them to be aware of the dangers and realities of life, but to not be afraid of it. Yours sincerely, Kelly Blythe
Kelly is my hero! – L