It had better be Chasing Childhood, which premieres at the DOCNYC film festival on Nov. 11. Click here to read my Q and A with the movie’s co-director, Eden Wurmfeld, who was inspired to make it after noticing the stark disconnect between her “Free-Range” childhood and the way she was raising her own sons. Where […]
Archive | 2020
Whatever Else Happens This School Year, Covid is Making Kids Quirky — and That’s Good!
Thanks to a year that has grown increasingly Dali-esque, kids are noodling around, finding interests and learning life lessons they may never have been exposed to in normal school times. It stinks that this year is so jumbled and upsetting. But when we look back, the pandemic may prove to have been a time of […]
What Age Would You Let Your Kids Stay Home Alone?
This week there’s a lively discussion on Let Grow’s Facebook group page where a mom asked: At what age do you let your kids stay home alone for short times (not date night, but maybe a few errands)? What benchmarks do you require first? Like knowing how to call 911, or anything else? My kids […]
What ’80s Parents Got Awesomely Right
You’ve probably seen those Facebook memes, “We survived the ___s!” Fill in any decade: whoever survived it is proud. But ’80s kids did survive something many kids are no longer faced with. That may have been the last era when it was truly taboo for children to interrupt grownups talking. This and other well-aged parenting […]
You Don’t Need to Watch Your Kids’ Sports Practices (And Everyone Might Be Better Off If You Don’t)
Attending kids sports practices can be a chore or a treat. For me, I loved meeting up with my fellow moms. Our kids weren’t doing anything too serious — it was a local baseball club, the kids were 9 or 10, I’m not sure if there were actually teams — so we gabbed the whole […]
Colorado Dad Lets Daughter Wait Briefly In Car. He and His Wife Lose The Chance to Adopt
What happens when something safe is seen through the eyes of cultural prejudice, and thus declared dangerous and depraved? Well, in the olden days, a woman who seemed powerful or spooky might be considered dangerous and depraved: a witch. That sometimes ended in stoning. More recently, a black man looking at a white woman might […]
A Grieving Mother’s Story of How Her Mentally Disabled Son Ended Up a “Sex Offender”
This story by Carol Nestikis, the mom of a 30something, intellectually disabled “sex offender,” is eye-opening and heart-wrenching. The sex offense laws much change. They are not making kids safer. They are just a simple, slimy way for politicians to sound like they are doing something “for the sake of our precious children.” Well the […]
A Perfect Headline to Drive Parents Crazy with Fear: “Boy Says Men Tried to Abduct Him”
THIS HEADLINE STINKS: Â “Bergen Boy, 13, Says Men In Landscaping Truck Tried To Abduct Him” Â You will note from the article that it turned out to be a misunderstanding (the boy didn’t understand the landscapers, who were speaking Spanish) and police determined there was NO ABDUCTION ATTEMPT. But if you glanced at the […]
Autumn Leaf Projects That Aren’t Lame
So many times, autumn do-it-yourself projects for kids end up being things like, “Take a leaf and make it into a hair ornament by sticking it into your hair.” Over at Let Grow, we’ve got some much more beautiful and scientific ideas. For instance, did you know you can extract the color from a leaf? […]
“When Your 5th Grader Writes Like Steinbeck, We Know It’s You”
Here’s a plea from a 5th grade teacher who wants parents to stop doing their kids’ homework. He knows it is tempting, he knows it is quicker, he knows that it’s horrible to watch your kid squirm and struggle. But he also knows when you’re stepping in, Steinbeck. Read his thoughts, over at Let Grow, […]