Author: lskenazy

I spend a lot of time trying to convince skeptics that “Free-Range” does not mean, “Send Your Kid Down the Mississippi on A Raft.” So when I present this article, it’s only because  it delights me so: The story of a boy who will be in fourth grade next year who got lost in the wilderness and didn’t panic. Instead, he tore up his yellow slicker to leave little ribbons in trees as a sign to searchers: I’m nearby! He also followed a stream figuring it would lead to a  lake where there might be people. And upon reuniting with…

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Hi Free-Rangers! Just though I’d share this little note I got from Australia this morning. Makes you realize it’s a small world after all: A small,   paranoid,  danger-halucinating  world. This is from a lady named Vivienne: Walking in Ikea.   I am a pleasant-enough, smiley grandmoter of 9. A man with his daughter of about 3 or 4 parks her near me as he steps to look at a shelf.   I smile as I step past and the child screams.   “Don’t leave me Daddy! Someone is going   to steal me!”    I almost pass out with…

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Hi Readers — This letter, received today,  made me cheer. For the mom, for the kids, for the movement! From a mom named Mia: I do very much wish to thank you for writing and sharing this blog. It is changing my life and that of my children and I suppose you could call me a convert of sorts. It feels like such a relief, a weight lifted from my shoulders, a permission of sorts to be the kind of parent I feel comfortable being. And that kind of parent is not one who approaches child-rearing with fear and quilt,…

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This wonderful Huffington Post essay by Holly Robinson describes her 6th grade son’s misery in  school. It sounds so much like my   fifth grade son’s misery, it made me realize that maybe  his “school = lethal injection minus the yummy last meal”  attitude    just may be  generic.   Having been a girl all my life, I didn’t realize boys could be so out of synch with the whole classroom   thing.  I thought everyone   aspired to to   Teacher’s Pet-for-Life. Guess not. Anyway, the part that really gets me — in my son’s life and in Ms.…

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This is the kind of letter Free-Range Kids loves to see! It comes from a mom in New Mexico. Voila: You know what I noticed in my neighborhood which really makes me so happy? We’ve been here for 6 years and in the summer, there was one (and I mean that) one kid that would be outside playing alone. Well, my kids finally hit 7 and 8 and I finally grew some common sense, and let them hit the street.   For a good month they were the only kids outside.   They were neighborly, too – chatting it up…

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Hi Readers! We’ll return to our regularly scheduled rants — and deep thoughts — in the next post. But first, I just had to reprint this lovely review of Free-Range Kids that ran on Britain’s Spiked Online, a news and commentary site that is similar to America’s Slate. It’s by Nancy McDermott, a mom of two who lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn — a location locally famous for its fiercely dedicated (or sometimes just fierce) moms. Voila: JOIN THE MOVEMENT FOR FREE-RANGE KIDS By NANCY MCDERMOTT Over the long Memorial Day weekend, I let my sons stay up past their…

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Here’s a wild  New York Times piece about a mom who  is fighting mad about   her kid’s school sometimes serving junk food. While the school  lunches are nutritious, the mom is livid  that some party treats, like cupcakes, are not. Quote the mom:   “I thought I was sending my kid to P.S. 9, not Chuck E. Cheese.” Now, not that I am pro-junk food (said your blogger,  popping   another M&M thoughtfully). But I don’t think we are poisoning our children  when they get to eat something sugary  at a school birthday party. Or any birthday party. Feed…

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This one comes from blogger Denise Gonzalez-Walker. It’s the rules for getting to school in a district near Seattle. Please note the bolded words: Bicycles Students in grades 4,5 and 6 may ride bikes, roller blades, skateboards and non-motor scooters to school.   According to Highline District policy, a protective helmet must be worn when riding a bike, skateboard, scooter or roller blades to school.   District policy also prohibits the riding of bicycles to and from school by children in grades K-3, even when accompanied by an adult (policy #3424). That’s right. Parents are forbidden to bike with their…

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