Author: lskenazy

Hi Folks — Just found this description of me on one of my YouTube videos. I think I should put it on my business cards: LOL. man i love this lady, but she sounds crazy sometimes. even though she’s right and makes sense

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Hi Readers! Here’s a nifty little brochure I picked up the other day for a child safety device. I won’t say which one, since I don’t want to give it any publicity. Perhaps you’ll see why. Here’s what the brochure said, in all its grammatical creativity. Please note: The dot-dot-dots are theirs. I haven’t left anything out of this lovely intro: PLEASE TAKE NOTICE…ANYONE CAN HARM A CHILD Sexual predators…how do you recognize them? Everyday you see relatives in your house, you pass people on the street, you watch television, the computer brings different individuals into your home and work…

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Hi Folks! Wow, leave your blog for one little day and the talk turns to porn. I feel like the Free-Range Parent of a blog. Anyway, I was in D.C. at the Family Online Safety Institute’s annual conference and it was fantastic to be among all sort of bigwigs from places like Yahoo and Disney and BT and TimeWarner, all listening to panelists putting online fear into perspective. As far as kids go, the biggest danger online is not predators (just like predators aren’t the biggest risk off-line, either, in what we quaintly used to call the “real world”).  No,…

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That’s where I’m at, in Washington D.C.  I’ll let you know what I find out! So far, it’s just nice being reminded that the Internet is safer than the headlines make it sound.  You know — same as the real world. Virtually.

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Hi Readers! Modern-day parenting keeps replacing playing time with “teaching time,” whether that’s time devoted to Sanskrit or soccer. Here’s a rather philosophical look at why play could be the ingredient that REALLY makes kids soar. (And society, too.) Thanks to Steve DeSanto for sending it in! Dear Free-Range Kids: Your posting of the Gever Tulley “5 Dangerous things…” video  and his Tinkering School got me to wondering if you were familiar with  Eric Hoffer, a philosopher and Longshoreman who became famous back in the  1960s and was interviewed on TV several times! He also taught at Berkeley. You may…

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Hi Readers — When you get right down to it, a lot of Free-Range Kids ends up being a plea for more community. More helping each other, more trusting each other, even more hanging out with each other. And here is a story of just that: A brief glimpse of how nice it is when we create community, instead of accusation. Dear Free-Range Kids: My 8-month-old son hates riding in the car, generally, but he loves visiting Grandma, who lives 3.5 hours away. So it’s a very long trip home. Late in the evening, we pulled into a convenience store…

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Hi Readers — First of all, thanks for all the help on the post before this one, when I asked for ideas and zingers. I printed out your responses and they really helped. Alas, as anyone who chanced upon my 3-nanosecond appearance on Fox & Friends this morning knows, the event did not go quite as well as I’d hoped. The topic was whether or not parents should track their kids via a new GPS device, the Big Brother.  Oh wait. Sorry. It’s actually called the “Little Buddy.” While I think I managed to stammer out the fact that Free-Range…

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Hi Readers — Tomorrow I’m on Fox & Friends at 8:20 a.m. Eastern Time talking about the Little Buddy Child Tracker — a device that allows parents to track their kids’ every move. What upsets me is the rationale behind the product: That children are in danger every second they step out the door, and that any GOOD parent keeps them under constant surveillance — either in person, or, now, by GPS. Not only does this reinforce the notion that we are living among depraved monsters, it also reinforces the notion that if, God forbid, anything bad DOES happen to…

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Hi Readers! I’ve been enjoying this video for a couple of years now. Maybe you’ve already seen it — it’s a TED talk by Gever Tulley, founder of the  Tinkering School. It’s the argument that got me to allow my kids to start using matches. Have fun! (And get a fire extinguisher.) — Lenore https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QuoH8nsrlqI

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