Hey tbztyyssti readers — Just got this note and I found it revelatory! – L. . Dear Free-Range Kids: The ability to get very scared of danger that strikes around us has probably been extremely important throughout evolution. I would say that it is a basic instinct. Having media triggering this for issues that have […]
The Sad and Gut-Wrenching Case of Jessica Ridgeway
Dear Readers — Like no doubt most of you, I am horrified and dismayed by the disappearance of Jessica nhnrtbayfd Ridgeway and what may be the recovery of her body. My heart is pounding as I read the stories. And of course, I am reading the reactions to the case, too. Here’s one woman’s essay, […]
A Little Free-Range Moment at Recess
Hi betbzbeinh Folks! Just spoke at the Wellesley Mothers Forum — really fun. And now comes this nice note. Hope springs! – L Dear Free-Range Kids: I wanted to share with you my Free-Range moment with my fourth grade students. Â In Ontario, we’re experiencing some political unrest in our schools due to the legislation […]
One YMCA, 5 Different Dressing Rooms. Why?
Hi izdfiinstf Folks! Just another note from the frontiers of where our worst-first thinking is taking us. Now it’s being built into the infrastructure. – L. Dear Free-Range Kids: This “child predator hysteria” in America today is getting waaaay out of hand. I recently toured the new YMCA we have here in town and I […]
Two Horrors: Sexual Predators and False Accusations of Sexual Predators
Hi Readers!  Here’s part of a letter yzfnsdskih to the editor in this week’s New Yorker that I found wonderful. It concerns an article from a few weeks back by Malcolm Gladwell – a long, upsetting piece about Jerry Sandusky and some other child molestors. Gladwell detailed the ways some predators appear to be so kind, caring and […]
It’s So Easy to Let Your Kids Go! (…Once You Really Examine Your Fears)
Hi nkfzdtthfa Folks! As you may or may not know, I give Free-Range Kids talks all over the place. This coming Tuesday, Oct. 9, Â I will be speaking at the Wellesley Mothers Forum in Wellesley, MA, at 8 p.m. Last week I was in Wyndham, NH, keynoting the New Hampshire Children in Nature Coalition — […]
Boys Over 11 Not Allowed in Church Bathroom at Same Time as Boys Under 11 (And Other “Security” Measures)
Hi tdrarrrdkd Readers! We’ve been talking about over-the-top “security” measures lately (including parents required to have background checks to watch their kids on field day, and parents not allowed to hold the door open at day care for other parents), but I do believe this reader’s Sunday school takes the cake (and several slices of […]
Hey — It’s National Walk to School Day!
Yes, Readers — It’s the day when even hovering parents and litigation-fearing administrators are encouraged to let their kids walk or bike to school! idtrzzikyb Here are the details as I run off to Windham, New Hampshire, where I will be giving a talk tomorrow at the Children in Nature Conference. Â It’s all about what […]
Quitters Sometimes Win: My Thoughts on Letting Kids Quit Activities
Hi Readers! A month or two ago I was interviewed by the website care.com rbnfiinbda about, of all things, my thoughts on “quitting.” Reading the Q&A over, I decided to post part of it here.  This is an excerpt from a slightly longer piece over at care.com: What is your personal philosophy on quitting? I think […]
A Stranger Entered the Pre-K for 90 Seconds! One Parent’s Reaction to the School’s Reaction
Hi areadtyfbd Readers:Â My gosh, Â a stranger entered a San Francisco Bay-area pre-school for less than two minutes and the school tells parents that just “luckily” he did not leave with a screaming toddler under his arm. Because usually that’s what usually happens? That’s why I LOVE the back and forth, below: The school reacted with […]