Readers! Have a great weekend! — L.
Dear Free-Range Kids:Â I just wanted to share with you a small but happy Free-Range story that probably wouldnâ€™t have come about if your site hadnâ€™t given me the courage to articulate the reasons why my children should be allowed to do strange things like walk to school alone.
Every morning I stand out on the footpath to wave goodbye to my 7-year-0ld and 5-year-old as they head off to school on their own. They now no longer want me to wait until I can no longer see them, and I donâ€™t get the lovely waves and blown kisses that they used to give me as they disappeared over the hill â€“ they are too big and independent for that now!
Sometimes the girls would be leaving as our neighbor across the road was getting her girls into the car. I never asked whether her 6-year-old wanted to walk with the girls, as I am always worried that people will think Iâ€™m a little strange. But one morning the mom asked if her daughter could walk with my girls.
It has now become a daily event! I let my 7-year-old cross over to pick up her friend, then they cross back together, and the three girls walk up the street. I canâ€™t think of a more satisfying, heart-warming sight.
Recently, the girls started asking me if they could see if their other friend from further up the street (whose house they have to pass) would like to walk with them. Now, this little girlâ€™s mother is definitely not a subscriber to the Free-Range philosophy, if her constant exhortations to her 7- and 5-year-olds to â€œstop running, walking onlyâ€ on the way home from school are anything to go by. So I wasnâ€™t sure how she would react, but I said yes. So my 7-year-old asked. And she was thrilled when her friend — same age — was allowed to walk.Â So was I. Four little girls laughing and skipping to school together, no adult to stifle their â€œjust being.â€
I have been planting the seeds in the minds of the two mothers that I hope will continue this next year, even though the oldest girls will no longer be with them, and I think I might have succeeded. I am looking forward to seeing a gaggle of 5 happy children heading off to school next year!
Thanks again! — Janet Matthews