Author: lskenazy

Hi Readers! This comes to us from a gal named Deborah who apparently gets as worked up by a story as I usually do! Nice not to be the only one! – L. Dear Free-Range Kids: I’m not sure that this is one article you want to deal with the comments on (!), but the verbiage of it struck me: Falling toilet seats: Rare but growing risk for boys It isn’t the article so much as how it’s reported…a few examples: “It’s a toddler basically potty training who doesn’t have the most advanced motor skills and they just don’t have…

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Readers — I’m in Bulgaria, running on caffeine and excitement (and feta  cheese), but even so, I don’t think it’s my hopped up status that is making me feel dizzy after reading this article. I think it’s the parents of the kids in question. Here’s how WHAM13, an ABC channel, reports the incident: Clyde, N.Y. — A Wayne County man is now facing four charges for Endangering the Welfare of a Child after he interrupted an act of vandalism at a home he was renovating for his father-in-law. The incident unfolded around 9 p.m. Saturday when Jesse Daniels said he…

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Hi Readers! Remember the horrifying 2011 case of a mom convicted of vehicular homicide after her son ran into the street and was hit by a drunk driver? (Who was NOT charged with homicide?)  She was facing a possible three years’ jail time. As I wrote at the time: In brief: An Atlanta mom and her three kids got off a bus stop that is across a busy highway from her home. She COULD have dragged everyone to the next light,  three tenths of a mile up the road, but it seemed to make sense to try to cross. Not…

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Hi Readers — This insightful note comes to us from reader/commenter  Linda Wightman, who says she is “passionate about ‘small’ in the big things of life:   birth, education, parenting, homemaking, health, church, conservation, farming, business and more.   Except for families, where large is good:   seven Free-Range grandchildren and counting!” She blogs about all this and more at  Lift Up Your Hearts!  .  And meantime, from me, hi from Bulgaria! – L Dear Free-Range Kids:  Hey, worst-first thinking has a psychological category all its own!   Look at this excerpt from  Difficult Personalities  by Helen McGrath and Hazel…

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Hi Readers and greetings from Csopbanka, Hungary, a town of 3000 outside of Budapest, where I am staying with a friend I haven’t seen in   (ahem) a couple of decades: Erno Gyori, and his family. We met way on a train going from Paris to Istanbul — same route as the Orient Express — except really cheap. I was traveling solo, and at the time (don’t do the math) Eastern Europe was still Communist, so it was kind of cool for folks on this side of the Iron Curtain to meet a young woman from the other side. And…

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Hi (from Vienna!) readers: This ad is so sane, so Free-Range, it’s making me a little suspicious.Why is an insurance company reminding us about the importance of taking small risks? Is it to make us less lawsuit-happy when something bad happens? Or to get us to buy insurance? (“A car can crash…”) Or maybe Allstate’s ad agency has been reading this blog?  Hmmm. – L.

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Readers — This letter comes to us from a mom in Alberta, Canada, who is giving me a lot of hope. Change can be swift and, since it makes everyone happier, lasting. Meantime, this intro comes to you from Vienna, where I just flew in (arms tired, etc.) to give a talk tomorrow at the international Velo-City  conference. Guten tag! — L Dear Free-Range Kids: I started a new job about 2 years ago at a small non-profit with about 20 employees.  Most of my coworkers were from a suburb that is known for being….well a bit uppity and above…

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Readers — A school in Hayward, Ca is offering a “toy gun buyback” to its students, modeled on the buybacks of real guns at real police stations. While I don’t have a big opinion about the idea — on the one hand, sometimes people mistake toy guns for real ones, which is tragic; on the other hand, laws based on one-in-a-million odds are usually over-reaching — I am appalled by the reasoning of the principal: “Playing with toys guns, saying ‘I’m going to shoot you,’ desensitizes them, so as they get older, it’s easier for them to use a real…

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Readers — An area of Alexandria, VA, a suburb of D.C., is debating whether to allow a  hostel to open near, among other things, some day care centers. As the reader who sent us  this news story  wrote, “To hear some of the comments, you’d think they were planning to build a gun store/brothel/drug den!”  Notes the article, citing the local parents’ concerns:  The business fronts, doorsteps and play areas of the concerned would all be traversed by the hostel’s travelers if it is approved by City Council later this month. My favorite comment from one of the folks quoted…

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